Letter to Lily

This letter was sent after the folks who had lied to lily had “ejected her from their lives”. They were upset that people knew of their collusion and deceit, and therefore, began to take aim at the person who had sought help from their lies.

It is interesting (on the one hand) that they should say that lily is violating the law by “giving out personal information”, and (on the other hand) then (actually) violate federal law by transmitting a threat via an electronic means.

~KJ {formerly known as LoD}

Well  lily, 

I know now all that has gone on..  and I can’t believe that you were, and are capable of such an act of debauchery, and hate.    But  I hope that you see someday what damage you have done, and to those that have opened their home, life, and heart to you. with trust and honor given to you.  You are a cruel person.

I would like to see if you can finish reading what I have to say to you.  Some of which is request to say, and some of my own firing to you.,  

Here is what I know about you lady.  You have pictures of Samantha, and Wraiths child, (deleted name).   You have pictures of Sir Wraith, and Mistress Samantha.   Pictures of their home.   You know of Sir Wraiths on line business,   And lily ?  You didn’t know them,  You needed more. 

What kind of woman are you?  Why do you think that Samantha  would send you pictures of her daughter, and grand daughter. ?

Does that mean nothing to you.  You have watched them on web cam.  Not real enough for you yet ?  Christ woman,  Your cold,

Lets see.  You even have pictures of the Jacuzzi, and the basement of the house. 

Lily, your nothing but a damned liar and a scammer Lily,  And to who?   The ones that loved and trusted you the most.  Hope that you can live with yourself,   But I guess that was stupid of me to say,  Your a heartless bitch anyway,..   And your joy, and pride comes to you at the cost of others.  And I must admit, you got a crowed of delinquents showing me that the old adage .. Birds of a feather, flock together really is true.  These stupid people do not even know each other and they rally for a cause of truth..  Shit.  I really admired lord colms for what he did with putting all of the information to gether in castlerealm ,, but he doesn’t even live by it. and I see how fake he is to his own testimony.   I cried for Jake, but now I cry worse for her, for I do not trust colms about anything even his love for Jake.  That is sad.

Just as you are fake lily, and you know it. 

How much does your title cost you lily.   Just in case you did not know.  Tribas’s home is not longer in the books of Germany.  And it is because of yours and Tribas’s actions.   Not much of a loss is it.  for a game, a title.    Well you have really hurt those that loved, and trusted you Lily.  If I had that capability inside of me lily,,,, I would cut it out of me with a knife.

Oh, and just a message from someone that trusted you. and wants to help you with your endeavors.   Quote. You “

HAVE been TURNED IN FOR ASKING FOR THIS ON THE NET TO THE FEDERAL BEAUR”

I doubt that Ms Tamara means anything to you either .. so she will be notified of all that you have said and done also.  

and this is a message to you also.

TELL HER I HOPE SHE DOES GET HURT THREW THIS MAYBE SHE WILL RELISE WHAT THE HELL WRAITH AND I DO

Now its my turn,  Lily, I have never spoken to anyone the way that I have with you.  and hope that I never do again.  But you have hurt the ones that I love most. And have gone above and beyond what any person has ever done for me.  

Lily ,, I swear.. that if I ever catch you, or see you.  I promise girl, there is not cost to myself for what I will do to you.  Your a fucking bitch that has ruined lives. Destroyed tradition,  and honor.  I fucking hate you. and  will sacrifice all, to make you feel some of what you have made my new family endure.  I promise you if it takes a life time.   I never wanted to be any kind of Dom,  but I am a Dom to your ass. Forever

Roxy…SWT

If you are still reading along, this is me (KJ) again.

I would apologize for a few of the misspellings and syntax errors of the above letter, but then… I didn’t write it.

For the record, the ‘stupid people’ the authors refer to in the lambasting of lily who ‘do not even know each other’ are friends who have met and gotten together in real life numerous times, and spent entire weekends together for a couple of years now.

Besides showing grotesque misconceptions about the dynamics of BDSM (ie:  I never wanted to be any kind of Dom,  but I am a Dom to your ass. Forever), no concept about the meaning of honor (as demonstrated in their manner of threatening all those who disagree with them [ie: HAVE been TURNED IN FOR ASKING FOR THIS ON THE NET TO THE FEDERAL BEAUR“], the lies about themselves and their experience, and the manner in which physical harm is threatened for a perceived insult). They (obviously) also have no conception of fealty for their ‘friends’.

Lily had asked me to ‘check these people out’ (she wanted me to be as pleased with her friends as she was. Our approval means a lot to her and it is endearing).

I went to their chat room. In the space of five minutes ‘Samantha’ made several serious lies and half truths about herself and her experience. I politely questioned her on these statements and was promptly booted from their MSN chat room.

Shortly thereafter, despite witnesses to the conversation, these people concocted allegations that I had denigrated a person who was not there and whom I really did not know (they have since stated that I have done the same to the author of this letter… which is patently untrue).

During the course of my discussions with lily, while trying to tell her (as nicely as I could) about the deceit and fables they were propagating, these folks had cited http://www.castlerealm.com as one source of their information for proof.  This site is no longer active, but can quasi be found at

I wrote to and received a reply from Lord Colm, owner of the site and a ‘cyber acquaintance’ of mine from years past, who rebuffed their assertions.

Whereas, before this incident, they were praising his web site  – http://www.castlerealm.com – as a veritable ‘book of the bible’ for BDSM, they turned on him and his works when his reply negated their lies.

(By the way, if you are wondering who “Jake” is in the letter above, I believe they are referring to “Jade” the pseudonym of Lord Colm’s acclaimed real life submissive, who is believed by some to have passed away in 1999, although Lord Colm later admitted that Jade never actually existed. >>Obviously they knew her well<<

Within the context of this letter are several foibles:

1. There are ancient or old “Houses” where ‘traditional’ BDSM is taught. (see article on houses)
2. It is illegal to post, mention or tell another someone’s personal information on line. If this were the case, we could not conduct e-commerce, we could not exchange phone numbers, and/or we could not even get on line – as the internet service providers could not get your credit card information. If I were a mean individual, I would post all of these people’s real life names, phone numbers and addresses for your perusal and STILL be within the bounds of the law… but I am not that mean, or that angry.
3. There is a thing such as “Olde Guard.” This is partially true, but not in the context that these folks mean it. (See articles and links on ‘Old Guard’).

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